In a Spot: Intervention SOS
She said she was surprised that she didn’t remember anything from the night before. Where her clothes went. Who was in her home; her bed. She told the police she wasn’t even sure she had sex with the man who had been found in her car, in a ditch about a mile from her home. The video that showed up in the in-box of her iPhone was evidence now of what had happened. She picked up the phone, hands trembling and dialed her parents. “I’m in a spot,” she told them, crying.
Her father rushed to her house, and then dad called me. Mom was at work so joined us on a conference call. Mom said it was like God had spared her daughter something worse, and perhaps this was their wake-up call, their SOS. I agreed.
Blackout behavior means you get loaded, and the recorder turns off. It’s like it didn’t happen…except it did for this young woman, her name is Val, like it does for so many of my clients – myself included. I used to wake up and wonder, what happened? Who happened? And what to do now!?
If someone you love struggles with alcohol or drugs, or other junk that’s gumming up their ability to live life, click around and read up on what we do and how we do it.
You needn’t wait for the next crisis or SOS.
That moment of clarity when you know what you know – that it’s out of control and something’s gotta be done – is the moment from which loving, appropriate action can begin.
I’m talking about no less than helping you help your loved one accept help and begin change. This is what I share about in my book “How to Change Someone You Love” and already I’ve had calls from folks who have read the book, and helped someone they love. Amazing!
2009 nearly behind us. 2010 straight ahead. Step out in faith. Lead with love. Let us show you how.
- Brad Lamm, BR-I
Board-Registered Interventionist
www.InterventionSpecialists.org
www.BradLamm.com





